UPDATE! PICS!
(srry, some got saved at 30 quality and some at 100 quality :/)
1. open a new document
http://img469.imageshack.us/img469/9349/step15tx.jpg
2. fill it w/ black
http://img469.imageshack.us/img469/2062/step26ft.jpg
3.make new layer
4.fill it w/ 646464 and put the opacity to 74%
http://img469.imageshack.us/img469/5233/step37nk.jpg
5.add a 50-300mm lens flare wherever u want the flame on ur new layer
http://img469.imageshack.us/img469/6028/step43ps.jpg
6.go into liquify
7.30 brush size, 100, 100
8. just fool around w/ it 'till ur satisfied
http://img469.imageshack.us/img469/6927/step53pb.jpg
9.set the layer to hard light or linear light
http://img469.imageshack.us/img469/4589/step61wd.jpg
10.erase the dots at the top
http://img469.imageshack.us/img469/1411/step71ek.jpg
11.set the opacity to 100%
12. merge layers
http://img469.imageshack.us/img469/7011/step89xv.jpg
13.ur done!
end result(results may vary)
[img=http://img104.imageshack.us/img104/5421/untitled22mp.th.jpg]