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Originally posted by Ben@6 Hours Ago
43 are you ever wrong?
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Thanks for you advice guys. I'm 17 and support (mostly) myself so there's not really anything she has besides a bond I won when I was 6 months old.
I'm wrong all the time, I'm just alot older than most of you guys, I've experienced more first hand. But thanks for the compliment :)
Angell,
It's important that you don't get angry with her. Expect absolutely nothing, then everything she does for you is a bonus and a surprise. There's something wrong with her, and it's got nothing to do with you. Get yourself out of the crossfire and let her deal with herself.
If you've been screwed over by your mother in the past multiple times, cut her off from your life. Don't let her make you cry over her again.
Send her hatemail by an anonymous e-mail then send her a nice e-mail from your account so as to bitch and still get what you want.
I would like to say im dissapointed. No mother should ever be like that. I would do what 43 said, he's god!
I really don't have any experience in divorce and such. My parents are cool to me and all. They have been married for half their live to eachother. I don't have a clue what it be like to see them break up, devastating to say the least.
I would do whatever 43 told me, if taht included jumping off a cliff, well so be it.
43 is my idol :)
.. but seriously angell.. usually i would just let things like that hang for a bit which is stupid so just tell her straight and don't get mad sorry if i wasn't much help :(
I have told her straight out how I felt she treated us. That's the email she refers to as me "telling her how much of a bad mother she is."
See my real out look on my "mother" is that while she did give me birth (which my 16th birthday she totally for got, 4 months later I got a card) she wasn't there for me growing up. While I really yearn for her to want to be my mom, I know deep down that there is something wrong with her. I do try to not put so much belief and faith into the fact she will do what she says, but it's hard because at the same time I want to believe there is good in her and that one day she'll do what she says. My father raised me to look for the good in people so it's hard to just not totally take to heart what she says. I do try and not believe her.
I only speak to her in occasional emails or (very rarely) phone calls. I don't even see her since I live in Florida and she in Pennsylvania. Currently I'm debating on telling her that my father has plans on us going up to Pennsylvania for the summer. If I do it would give me a chance to see her. I'm just not sure if I can.
