The feminization of men?

As a woman, I would just like to state for the record that girly guys are VERY unattractive to me. I dont want a guy to take longer than me when hes getting ready to go out for the night. Or to steal my products and use them on his face. Im really annoyed by guys wearing girly tight bootcut jeans and studded belts*cough*twanlmao!!*cough* with little baby tees. I dont think there is anything wrong with a man taking care of himself and wanting to look his best. i mean yeah wash your face, use oxy pads if you have pimples, shower daily, wear cologne. But NO MAKE UP please!!! I know some girls may like this... but I need a manly guy. One who will wait for me to finish getting ready, and bitch because i took so long LoL. I want my man to be strong, and protective... i dont want him to worry about chipping his nailpolish or smudging his eyeliner if we get in a sticky situation. thats just me though! LOL oh yeah and another thing... STRAIGHT GUYS SHOULD NEVER WEAR PINK!!!!! unless they dressing up liek the easter bunny for their kids or something LoL

i wear pink ...

just a colour ... because it's light doesn't affect who should wear it or what affect it has on other people, if that's right what you say then girls should never wear blue...

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Originally posted by HellBorn Angel@Yesterday, 9:55 AM
Thats fair enough I can't really see why emos are so senstive but saying that if they've still got all the equipment there still guys.
Not all girls cry, I'm more masculine than anything else. I'm not an emo but some emo hair is pretty cool and I know some emos and there not all complete sissies.
But saying that there were feminine men ourside emo population, I mean some camp men act really feminine.

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I can say i'm emo .. not particularly proud of it nor happy about it, but i guess if i dress that way and listen to the music i am. Emo means emotional, yes i'm emotional but if any twat wants to go at me i'll stand my ground and fucking fight. What you percieve as emo is the people who go around being depressed all the time, saying they wil slit their wrists and shit (not all but some do) well that my friend is a poser .... this "emo" thing is about being emotional not being a poser so where anyone gets this idea that "emo" guys are all feminine fucks then think again. I'm not feminine, sure i dress in pink but that's because i like it, colours don't decide how emotional i am nor what category i fall in life ... i'm pretty much a me so hellborn is right it doesn't matter if you like this "emo" trend or not guys can be emotional there's no law against it, or a law which says that emotional guys are feminine or like the "emo" trend.

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Originally posted by deadloader@45 Minutes Ago
i wear pink ...

just a colour ... because it's light doesn't affect who should wear it or what affect it has on other people, if that's right what you say then girls should never wear blue...
I can say i'm emo .. not particularly proud of it nor happy about it, but i guess if i dress that way and listen to the music i am. Emo means emotional, yes i'm emotional but if any twat wants to go at me i'll stand my ground and fucking fight. What you percieve as emo is the people who go around being depressed all the time, saying they wil slit their wrists and shit (not all but some do) well that my friend is a poser .... this "emo" thing is about being emotional not being a poser so where anyone gets this idea that "emo" guys are all feminine fucks then think again. I'm not feminine, sure i dress in pink but that's because i like it, colours don't decide how emotional i am nor what category i fall in life ... i'm pretty much a me so hellborn is right it doesn't matter if you like this "emo" trend or not guys can be emotional there's no law against it, or a law which says that emotional guys are feminine or like the "emo" trend.

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FUCK YEAH!

since when is pink a feminine color? wtf it's just a color! red is also a color but it's not 'feminine'


and also studded belts aren't feminine. wtf? i'd say it's masculine if anything.

Edit: wow this is becoming a very controversial thread.

lol rock on!! I was simply saying.. that I personally wouldnt date a guy who wore pink, painted his nails and wore girl jeans. Thats not my kind of guy. some guys can pull the pink off i guess... but im not a big fan. And the studded belt thing was a joke for twan LoL =)

peace yall!

ok sorry for snappin, some other ppl here are makin me kinda pissy tho.

I'm pretty open to how guys choose to look. As long as they're comfortable with what they're doing it's fine to me. BUT..I hate poser emo kids or whatever the fuck you want to call them. (the ones who act or dress like it just because it's the "cool" thing). And also the ones who ACT all depressed and shit when their life is fucking fine because they just want the attention.

yes coheed!!! :lol:

oh and conspired that&#39;s the kind of people that i&#39;m speaking of, i think they&#39;re called "scene" but emo aswell, it&#39;s stupid really but they&#39;re the people everyone calls emo and so they think this is what they all do ... people who ruin it for eveyone piss me off ... <_<

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Originally posted by deadloader@Yesterday, 4:18 PM
yes coheed&#33;&#33;&#33;* :lol:

oh and conspired that&#39;s the kind of people that i&#39;m speaking of, i think they&#39;re called "scene" but emo aswell, it&#39;s stupid really but they&#39;re the people everyone calls emo and so they think this is what they all do ... people who ruin it for eveyone piss me off ... <_<

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People who ruined it for everyone? There was nothing good about the emo concept in the first place. It&#39;s just another excuse for Americans who whine, complain, act lazy, and mope around without having to do anything with their lives.

I wouldn&#39;t call feminin males men, I&#39;d call them Boys. I wouldn&#39;t consider a male a Man unless he is masculine, has a sense of honor/pride/glory, and doesn&#39;t sit around all day doing nothing.

The emo concept is a fad only in the US of A (as far as I am aware).

Of course people who "whine, complain, act lazy, and mope around without having to do anyting with their lives" sounds like every teenager i ever met&#33;

nope, emo is here too .. but who said being emotional is a fad? because that&#39;s what it initially means, the "emo" you&#39;re thinking of is actually being "scene" scene kids are the fakers, posers and shit ... and yes they ruined being emotional taking it to the extreme and being pathetic .. you have a shrewd idea of what a man is supposed to be, very fucked up to be honest.