I'm applying to Fire and Rescue Departments to start my career but the twist is I'm only 18. Now this department pays 38,000 a year, I'm dead center in the middle of the county so that saves me my gas money, rents cheap (plus there's always the parents). And its a good place to start. Not fast but not to slow.
My plan is to achieve a 2 year associates in fire administration through the local community college while working for the county. These classes would be done by night and weekends.
However,
Stepping foot into my volunteer fire house these days is impossible without hearing "don't do it, don't do it, don't do it" out of every bodies mouths the entire time I'm there. There points are go to college for 4 years, have fun, party, get yourself in trouble, find some women. Then come back and get a career. I understand they're looking out for me not wanting me to make the mistakes they made when they were my age but its just constant negative comments on my decisions and they're trying to run my life, when in fact, it should be me making the decisions.
I'm entirely confused and just down right exhausted from all this stuff but what do you think
college or career?, listen to them or do what i feel is right?