I f***ing hate it

Everyone is on my case nowadays. Snide comments being shot at me everywhere and people just bitching over little shit.

I left home at 10AM on Friday to go to the gym at school and get a couple books so I can do some work while I have a semester break and my mum is on my case as though I just did a world of wrong. Wtf does this woman think college is? HS? Shit, not every class I have start at 10 AM.

How do I deal with this?

edit for underestimating how serious you were
so heres one of the most inspirational pictures i have:
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I like how getting srs comments on The Void is such a trial nowadays.

Srsly, it pisses me off. My gran is convinced I need anger management; yeah, tell that to anybody. When you do something that is aggravating to a person, chances are they will lash out. Can't blame me if you being a pain in the ass. Another thing too, she never inspires me to do anything and is always being a pessimist, always comparing me with other kids, and then I when tell her how it is, she always throw something at me, and then she actually wonders why I would rather not tell her about any of my problems?

Bullshit.

Well the best thing to do right now is to take things easy and find away to calm yourself down and get away from everything.
I listen to music or play xbox to relieve some anger. i also use photoshop as a way to relax myself. Taking long walks around the park and areas that seem to have a calm atmosphere will certainly help.

I try too. I find when I workout and then come home, I'm too damn tired to get angry but when I'm like by myself, just thinking and stuff, a barrage of bullshit flies at me.

Music is very nice and I do do it sometimes but some of the things I listen too gets me too excited so it tends to do the opposite of what I want xD

haha listen to some Beethoven or Mozart if thats the case.
yeah i know what you mean sometimes when your alone and have nothing else to do everything just goes through your mind a barely does something positive come to mind.

Maybe Mozart. The calmest music I listen too is FF soundtracks. Bloody epic. What types do you listen to?

ignore them like i do my parents lol gl m8

I listen to hardstyle and dub step music like that. But since i have dominican blood in me ill tend to listen to some bachata or merengue.

Your best outlet is probably just to lash out right here, in a thread. Whatever stress or problems you have with the fam, release them here instead of on them or bottling it inside.

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ignore them like i do my parents lol gl m8

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Tried that. Had something thrown at me; barely avoided.

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I listen to hardstyle and dub step music like that. But since i have dominican blood in me ill tend to listen to some bachata or merengue.

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I prefer R&B, Blues, love ballads (go go go reospeedwagon), rap, metal, alternative. Thanks for advice dude.

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Your best outlet is probably just to lash out right here, in a thread. Whatever stress or problems you have with the fam, release them here instead of on them or bottling it inside.

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You could be right.

My opinion, If you get too mad lift some weights and listen to some loud music. wear yourself down and then take a nap, sleep always puts you in a better mood no matter what

its what i do

Get into a screaming match with me and, or Apathy. You'll lose mind you, so maybe not.

don't worry about it too much and try to do some activities that you really like.

I always go outside and take my bike and just leave for a couple of hours. ;)

You could try to talk to a psychologist/therapist (you dont need to be crazy for that) and just say whats on your mind and you might get some good feedback, atleast it would be an outlet of your frustrations.

^ I was gonna suggest that, tall to one of them or someone similar just to releive some of the stress, look at it this way, if you save up you can move out soon:)

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My opinion, If you get too mad lift some weights and listen to some loud music. wear yourself down and then take a nap, sleep always puts you in a better mood no matter what

its what i do

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I would have to go to gym to use weights. ANd I do try sleeping but I have a habit of overthinking and when I try to calm down through sleep I always find myself thinking of too much dark thoughts and become even more irritated.

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Get into a screaming match with me and, or Apathy. You'll lose mind you, so maybe not.

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Your sure?;;) I yell pretty hard xD

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don't worry about it too much and try to do some activities that you really like.

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Lol, my mum and gran stopped me from going to boxing because she doesn't want me out too late (7:30 PM, owow =\)

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I always go outside and take my bike and just leave for a couple of hours. ;)

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My bike needs repairing lol

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You could try to talk to a psychologist/therapist (you dont need to be crazy for that) and just say whats on your mind and you might get some good feedback, atleast it would be an outlet of your frustrations.

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My gran sent me to about 3 therapists throughout the years. I improved but my gran, well lets just say she upped her game. :S

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^ I was gonna suggest that, tall to one of them or someone similar just to releive some of the stress, look at it this way, if you save up you can move out soon:)

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Yea, I plan on moving out as soon as my situation is very good. Gotta finish college first.

Hemp. Lots of it.

How old are you btw Takken ?

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I like how getting srs comments on The Void is such a trial nowadays.

Srsly, it pisses me off. My gran is convinced I need anger management; yeah, tell that to anybody. When you do something that is aggravating to a person, chances are they will lash out. Can't blame me if you being a pain in the ass. Another thing too, she never inspires me to do anything and is always being a pessimist, always comparing me with other kids, and then I when tell her how it is, she always throw something at me, and then she actually wonders why I would rather not tell her about any of my problems?

Bullshit.

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Honestly, you should be grateful you have a mother caring for you, not everyone is blessed to go to college either. She doesn't need to inspire you to achieve something, you do it for yourself, your future. Maybe she's bitching all the time, but really, you should just brush it off and keep on working hard.

@ Nevad he's either 16 or 17, I always forget:P

not to be an ass but tbh everyone has these problems get over it. just do what they say till you get to go away and i know they yell at you anyways but you get use to it or at least i did. when i was about 12-13 i got use to my parent yelling at me for useless stuff and them being always right. so just get use to it. imo no point of venting to random people on the internet about it go talk to your friends and vent, maybe i just have too much of a pracitical way of thinking but thats just me.

Good point. Hell, I still get yelled at all the time. Mind you, I yell back and toss my phone out the window when I am done most of the time.

Tbh, i have similar problems. Usually i get pissed off because my friends can become absolute twats. Usually, i just talk to a girl that i've never seen even slightly angry, and it cools off

I broke a door once when i was rly pissed at my dad, not a proud moment :p

A door? That's nothing. 18 years old, I broke 2 of my Dad's ribs. Ya, I was pissed off allrite.

I regret it now of course.

^:p

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A door? That's nothing. 18 years old, I broke 2 of my Dad's ribs. Ya, I was pissed off allrite.

I regret it now of course.

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...walks away slowly form DarkMethod... slooowly... THEN RUN!!!